The qualities that I admire most have changed over the years. When I was younger I thought I wanted my friends to be a duplicate of me. If we didn’t agree, or if they didn’t have the sames values, I thought we couldn’t be friends. I have grown over the years.
Today I value kindness, unconditional love and honesty.
I am a lot less judgemental today and don’t try to cotrol my friends or choose friends who are a copy of me.